By Donna Richardia Mose
Aloha mai kakou e ‘Imi Maluhia (Hello all peace seekers):
“Are we responsible for the violence in our Nation’s?” My answer is both yes (learn the truth and be apart of the restoration) and no (I realize you were not there, and are only a beneficiary of others choices).
Coming from a nation that is currently illegally occupied by america, I found myself at the center of a lot of questions and welcoming apologize from many students. As well, I found many who professed to know my history, and still felt entitled to blindly go about life. The most surprising to me was everyone from ‘outside’ the US knew the story, but only a few within. It has taken me a few weeks to digest the position I am in to educate everyone on the issues my nation is going through.
The greatest blessing to me was the 1st week at Nansen Center. I was honored to be the final speaker for the Lillehammer Dialogue Center, giving my mana’o (thoughts) and ike (knowledge) on who we are as a people, and what my belief system is personally as a mother of 12 beautiful souls. I have opened my home to 8 other special spirits, and this has caused me to further search for ways to better communicate and show love. Also, my search for ‘maluhia/peace’ was to help me reconcile the deep pain I experience living in Hawaii, while being a native Hawaiian.
My greatest test when returning home, is being able to take these experiences home with me. Steinar Bryn told me, “My children often question my dialogue at home…I tell them I cannot always take my work home with me!” (Insert giggles of complete understanding).
I am deeply moved, and impacted by this experience. It has given me the hope that we can all (in our various nations) find the solutions to fix the genocides and power struggles going on back home. I am also aware of the responsibility I have to reconcile and change the outcomes of the illegal overthrow of the Hawaiian Kingdom.
Sitting on the beach at the Fjords, for the first time, in such a long time… I felt alive and peaceful. I felt the makani (wind) as it brushed my face and the sun kissed my cheeks. I realized that you can find love in the simple things. In the quiet places, in unfamiliar and unexpected places. You can find a common ground, no matter what ground you stand on.
For the rest of my life, I will fondly recall my Trans-International Ohana (Family). The moment we all danced together in Steigners backyard will forever be sketched
in my puuwai (heart). I want to express my deepest Mahalo Nui (gratitude) for sharing your stories, your lives, your smiles, your hugs, your culture and your precious time. I wish I did this 30 years ago. Please remember we can #ChangeTheWorld we can breakdown the #InvisibleFences and we can recall upon this experience, as proof that we can do better with inclusive dialogue and and extra scoop of peace and LOVE!